The festive season is usually a time where you see more people in one month than you might have all year, with increased plans, activities and spontaneous get-togethers to navigate. It can get overwhelming so regardless of whether you’re on your own by choice, marital status, or just desperate for some time to yourself among the Chrimbo chaos, there’s plenty of festive solo activities you can do by yourself. Some you might even think are best to do alone, and they definitely give you some time to switch off amongst everything else there is to think about at this time of year.

So, continuing my series on embracing solo life, whatever your marital status is, this week’s solo inspiration is one for the season, embracing the Christmas festivities on your own terms. Here are some festive solo activities to try over the next few weeks, with tips on why they’re great to do alone and how to make the most of them.

All of these I either have done, would do, or have planned to do. I was shocking at wreath making so won’t be doing that again but it would still be a good solo date!

Wreath-Making Workshop

Join a local wreath-making class to craft your own festive decoration. It’s a creative way to get into the holiday spirit, you might learn a thing or two, and it’s more of an event than just buying one. You’ll also meet like-minded individuals and there are loads all across the North East – take a look at my list here.

Why it’s great to do solo: Wreath-making workshops are social, creative, and you don’t need a plus-one to do it. The focus is on your project, making it ideal for those looking to enjoy a new skill without worrying about who you’re doing it with.

Tips for making the most of it:

• Choose a local workshop to support small businesses near you.
• Everyone is there for the same reason so it’s easy to find common ground chatting to people if you want to

Festive Afternoon Tea

Treat yourself to a luxurious afternoon tea at a local hotel or venue. Check before you book as most places need notice, and they book up really fast. If you’re going on your own tell them, as I find they will seat you somewhere more private. Afternoon teas are often served in lounges, by fires, and in more relaxed seating so it’s not like you’ll be sat in the middle of a restaurant by yourself. 

Enjoy seasonal treats and a glass of fizz while taking your time over the food. There are some great spots in the North East, I’ve put together a full list here. Places I’ve done it by myself include Slaley Hall, Meet Me on the Corner and Walwick Hall which is now closed.

Why it’s great solo: When is it not great to treat yourself, you aren’t tied to other people’s calendars, and it’s a daytime activity which I always find helps when in restaurants alone. The cosy surroundings and roaring fires in winter also help and it’s a luxurious way to enjoy your own company.

Tips for making the most of it:

• Choose somewhere with beautiful festive décor, and where you have to contact them to confirm your booking so you can make it clear you’re dining solo – and even request specific seating if you want to
• Bring along a good book if you want to, or enjoy the people watching.
• Book in advance to secure a prime spot during the busy holiday season.

Create a Vision Board

Everyone will start reflecting soon on the coming year, but you don’t need to wait until January. When you’re only focusing on yourself it’s easy to start anytime you like and if you get ahead I promise you’ll feel better for it. Whether you’ve had a positive year and want to make sure that continues, or haven’t loved 2024 and are determined to make next year better, planning now is a great pick me up ahead of the new year. Looking back on mine from 2024 below it also feels pretty good to know I did most of it – with a few curve balls thrown in.

Spend a cosy afternoon to yourself at home creating a vision board for the upcoming year. If you’re not the digital type, gather magazines, print out inspiring images, and make a scrapbook version, or if you’re digital then go for it on your ipad, phone, or even just make a pinterest board. Reflect on your goals and dreams for the new year – what’s holding you back from doing them? Barcelona, Cornwall and a few other things were on mine last year and I’ve already started one for 2025.

Why it’s great solo: Sometimes if you spend a lot of time on your own especially living alone and working from home you can get you a bit stuck in a rut, even just in your own mindset, so if you take the time to constantly research, plan and keep yourself on track with what you want to achieve in life it keeps you positive. I have learned this more than ever the past couple of years. Doing this activity holds yourself accountable and allows you to focus fully on your aspirations as it is for nobody but yourself.

Tips for making the most of it:

• Gather magazines, photos, and craft supplies in advance to make the process enjoyable.
• Download a digital doc or planner, create a pinterest board or an Instagram saved album. Save things over time to add to the final version
• Set up a cosy space with snacks to do it and make categories – for example career, personal, fitness/wellbeing etc
• Take time over it and keep revisiting it as you think of things to add

Bake Christmas Treats

Get into the festive mood by baking classic Christmas treats like gingerbread, Christmas cake or mince pies. Enjoy the process, get creative and then enjoy them with or gift some to friends or neighbours in the spirit of giving for Christmas. It does make you feel good, especially if you go to either the Cookshop in Corbridge whose festive window is always beautiful, or Sostrene Grene in Eldon Square for cute supplies, it’s enough to turn anyone into Mary Berry.

Why it’s great solo: Baking is therapeutic and fills, it leaves your house smelling amazing, and it’s a great way to be productive and creative while indulging in festive traditions.

Tips for making the most of it:

• Try new recipes, like gingerbread houses or festive cupcakes
• Package up your creations as thoughtful gifts for neighbours or friends – who doesn’t like receiving things like this.
• Enjoy them yourself over a quiet cuppa after your own hard work.

Visit a Christmas Market

I know a lot of people love to do this with friends or a partner, and it is a sociable experience but it can also be great to do alone. I LOVED my Christmas market trip to Edinburgh just me and Arthur last year, and this year I’m going abroad for one – very soon! My main advice would be to choose one in a city you know, that has other things to do besides the market, and plan ahead for any reservations. 

Or, go to an alternative one away from the main cities. A great North East one is the weekly ones held at South Causey Inn. Find some inspiration for others across the North East here.

Exploring the enchanting atmosphere of a Christmas market can be just as enjoyable alone, it’s just a different experience. You can browse the stalls in your own time, the focus isn’t just on the food and drink – unless you want it to be, and it’s just a feel good atmosphere. 

Why it’s great solo: Christmas markets are full og festive charm and give you the freedom to explore at your own pace. Wander through twinkling stalls, sample seasonal snacks, and find unique gifts.

Tips for making the most of it:

• Visit during quieter times for a more relaxed experience.
• Bring a camera or phone to capture the magical atmosphere.
• Choose a city where there are other things to do besides the market 

Winter Spa Day

A real treat, indulge in a relaxing spa day to unwind from the holiday hustle. I’d recommend booking this for either between Christmas and New Year, or in January so it’s something to look forward to. Many spas offer special winter packages, so do your research and set aside a day or half day to do it.

Why it’s great solo: Spas are designed precisely for relaxation and self-care, making them a perfect solo treat. You can completely unwind and recharge without the need to cater to anyone else’s schedule.

Tips for making the most of it:

• Look for festive spa packages that include seasonal scents like cinnamon or orange
• Bring a book or playlist to enjoy in the relaxation room
• Northern recommendations would be Beau Monde spa in Lucker, Ladore Falls spa Lake District, Low Wood Bay Lake District, Headlam Hall

Wine Tasting Experience

A lot of Christmas wine tasting events are held by wine clubs, but some places do them as a one off event in the run up to Christmas. Attending one of these is a great way to learn about different wines and choose ones to have over Christmas. 

Why it’s great solo: A lot of people do wine tastings on their own, you won’t be out of place and it’s educational, interactive with whoevers leading it, and a chance to find some new wines you like. Going solo means you can fully enjoy the experience without distractions. It also goes without saying it’s alcohol related, so everyone ends up best mates by the end of it anyway. 

I’ve met some great people at wine tastings I’ve been to alone, people I now class as friends and I’d really recommend North East Tasting Club for that. There’s also Cavavin, and Blackfriars in Newcastle who also do good events – I’ve seen a lot of solo people do that one too. For a good wine bar I love St Vincent and ask for Matt who is great for recommendations.

Tips for making the most of it:

• Look for small group tastings where you can meet others and share opinions.
• Take notes on your favourite wines—perfect for gifting or choosing what to have with your Christmas dinner.
• If wine isn’t your thing, look for alternative tastings like festive cocktails or local beers.

Coffee & Book Date

Spend a peaceful afternoon at your favourite café with a good book, or take the opportunity to visit one further afield. Some North East recommendations include Barter Books in Alnwick with fireplaces, a cafe on site and it’s dog friendly, or Keel Row Books in Whitley Bay, a gorgeous store to browse before heading to any of the cafes on Park View. I’ve also seen a lot of people by the fire in Platform 2 Tynemouth reading, especially on a Friday afternoon before the post work drinkers come in after 5pm.

Why it’s great solo: You don’t need a single soul with you to enjoy spending a quiet afternoon reading a book at a café. It’s one of the simplest yet most satisfying ways to enjoy your own company. Pair it with a festive drink and your favourite book for the ultimate self-care switch off moment.

Tips for making the most of it:

• Find a festive book to be extra Christmassy, I recommend ‘Mistletoe & Mulled Wine at the Christmas Campervan’, which is set on the Northumberland coast.
• Opt for a window seat for prime people-watching opportunities, or by the fire if there is one
• Treat yourself to a Christmas-themed drink like a gingerbread latte or hot chocolate.

Volunteer

Give back this festive season by volunteering at a local animal shelter, food bank or event. There are always people advertising for extra pairs of hands at this time of year, and it’s a rewarding way to spread holiday cheer and make a difference in your community.

Why it’s great solo: Volunteering is a meaningful way to give back during the holidays and do something selfless. 

Tips for making the most of it:

• Research local opportunities, such as food banks, animal shelters, or charity events.
• Sign up for shifts in advance—volunteer spots fill up quickly during the holidays.

Solo Christmas Shopping

I don’t know about you but I just find shopping ten times easier and more enjoyable doing it alone. You aren’t rushing, on anyone else’s timescale, and you can get so much more done. Take your time to explore window displays, find out when your local towns are hosting late night events (Whitley Bay and Park Views are this coming week) and you can finish it off with a solo Christmas cocktail to reward yourself.

Even better, take yourself solo shopping, for yourself. A new outfit, new make up, whatever you fancy. To me from me is the best kind of shopping.

Why it’s great solo: Christmas shopping alone lets you move at your own pace and explore without pressure. It’s an opportunity to take in festive window displays, browse at leisure and find thoughtful gifts.

Tips for making the most of it:

• Go during late-night shopping events for a magical atmosphere and smaller crowds. Make a list!
• Treat yourself to a cocktail when you’re done
• Plan your route to include independent shops and markets for unique finds.

All of these solo activities are about embracing your independence, creating memories, and treating yourself to the joys of the Christmas season. It’s a time of year that can be hard for people on their own, and even if you aren’t there is so much to think about you can end up frazzled. Put your mind to it and put a positive spin on it, welcome the alone time and a break from remembering everything and everyone else. The best company should be your own. 

Others in the Solo Sunday Series

7 Day Solo Challenge: with North East Recommendations